Hey!
Enjoy!!! all of the Moms and Grand Moms know this if true. We may all have other occupations but nothing as tough as being a Mom. Hugs to all!!!
Just a Mom???
A woman, renewing her driver's license at the County Clerk's office was asked by the woman recorder to state her occupation.
She hesitated, uncertain how to classify herself.
"What I mean is," explained the recorder, "do you have a job or are you just a. stay at home mom?"
"Of course I have a job," snapped the woman. "I'm a Mom."
"We don't list 'Mom' as an occupation, "housewife covers it," said the recorder emphatically.
I forgot all about her story until one day, I found myself in the same situation, this time at our own Town Hall.
The Clerk was obviously a career woman, poised, efficient and possessed of a high sounding title like, "Official Interrogator" or "Town Registrar."
"What is your occupation?" she probed.
What made me say it? I do not know. The words simply popped out.
"I'm a Research Associate in the field of Child Development and Human Relations."
The clerk paused, ball-point pen frozen in midair and looked up as though she had not heard right. I repeated the title slowly
emphasizing the most significant words. Then I stared with wonder as my pronouncement was written in bold, black ink on the official questionnaire.
"Might I ask," said the clerk with new interest, "just what you do in your field?"
Coolly, without any trace of fluster in my voice, I heard myself reply, "I have a continuing program of research,
(what mother doesn't) in the laboratory and in the field, (normally I would have said indoors and out). I'm working for my Masters, (the whole darned
family) and already have one credits (my son). Of
course, the job is one of the most demanding in the humanities, (any mother care to disagree?) and I
often work 14 hours a day, (24 is more like it). But the job is
more challenging than most run-of-the-mill careers and the rewards
are more of a satisfaction rather than just money."
There was an increasing note of respect in the
clerk's voice as she completed the form, stood up and personally ushered me to the door. As I drove into our driveway, buoyed up by my glamorous new career, I was greeted by my lab assistant age 9
"just another Mom."
Motherhood! . What a glorious career!
Especially when there's a title on the door.
Does this make grandmothers "Senior Research associates in the field of Child Development and Human
Relations"
And great grandmothers Executive
Senior Research Associates"? I think so!!!
I also think it makes Aunts "Associate Research Assistants.
Please send this to another Mom, Grandmother, Aunt,
and other friends you know.
May your troubles be less, your blessings be more
and nothing but happiness
come through your door!
Hugs to all the SAHMs everywhere.
Barbara
6 comments:
I have seen that before! Its great!
Holly
I know I changed it around to fit me. My sister in law sent it to me. You are a great sahm, I can tell by your journal. hugs Barbara
I LOVED that!
- Jessica
http://journals.aol.com/aljes12/Jessicasthoughtsfeelings
I never tire of that one. Great entry
Hugs, Marina
That was nice....
betty
That is a fantastic story about you answering the question about your employment status and qualifications. lol mark
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